Finding Validation in an Invalidating World….

Once again I find it’s time to write about a particular energy trend emerging in reading sessions. That trend is validation or perhaps more to the point, why are we so invalidated that we seek validation outside of ourselves? In a vast world full of competition it’s difficult to validate our own self. Seeking recognition from others is looking outside yourself. There’s nothing wrong with wanting validation but it’s important to be able to validate YOURSELF so you can accept and ‘have’ the validation you receive from others.

Why is it so hard to validate ourselves?

Validating ones self is not easy because you’ve simply been taught from a very young age not to. It’s ok to validate someone else but it’s considered egotistical if you validate yourself. Why is it ok to validate and recognize others but not yourself? Validating yourself is not about praising yourself publicly. It’s ok to be proud of what you’ve accomplished and there’s nothing wrong with telling people BUT constantly shouting your good deeds from the rooftops and telling others how amazing you are time and time again is actually you wanting others to validate you. Validation like everything else is an energy and sometimes the invalidation you carry causes you to see things and react through the filters caused by that invalidation.

How much validation can you have?

Perhaps you’ve been recognized but in your heart you don’t feel like you deserve the recognition because in your eyes it wasn’t good enough. I’ll bet that some time in your past you did, said or created something you were proud of and felt good about only to have someone else invalidate it. If that happened and you owned what they told you as truth at some level you’re holding on to the energy of invalidation and it has had an effect on everything you’ve done since that time. In order to have validation from others you must be able to validate yourself and know inside that what you do or say has value to YOU.

Until you can validate yourself it will never be enough….

No matter how much recognition you receive or from whom, until you can validate yourself it will be fleeting at best. Receiving an award (or recognition) is wonderful but what happens after your 15 minutes of fame is over? Can you validate yourself for it or do you find yourself trying to figure out how to do it again? Have you spent your life trying to get validation from a particular person yet you are ignored or you feel like you always say the wrong thing and try to correct it? Do you feel like nothing you do or say is good enough in the eyes of another? Are you validating yourself with food or sex or shopping or some other addiction which makes you feel good for merely a moment? Some people shop so they have lots of “things” but do those “things” really validate you? Some people validate their bodies with food only to beat themselves up later for gaining weight or feeling awful. Some are in effort trying to be the “top dog” who makes the most money so all they do is work. None of those things work.

Recognition and validation from others is a beautiful thing but so is validating yourself and accepting validation from others humbly and with grace. It is up to you to find what validates you. Does a job well done make you stand back and smile without someone else telling you? Can you graciously accept and know with all your heart that you deserve validation from others? Can you give to others without expectation of receiving anything in return and you feel good about it? In the world today it’s difficult even under the best of circumstances to receive a spirit to spirit HELLO. If your spirit does not get a HELLO it causes you to feel empty, alone, ignored and invalidated. A simple hello while looking into someones eyes is a huge validation for both of you. You saying hello to your own spirit validates you.

Finding validation in an invalidating world means you validate yourself as well as others. It’s also important to be aware of the validation you receive every day. If you’re looking for validation scroll down to the end of this post and enjoy one of my favorite videos on the subject. This short film called VALIDATION does show how a bit of validation can change your inner and outer world. Let me finish by saying….HELLO! YOU ARE AMAZING! YOU HAVE VALUE! Can you see these things about you for yourself?~Shine Your Light Debbie

SpiritLightInsight.com
Daily Muse Home Page

Feb 27 2011

And the Oscar goes to….YOU!

From the time you are born you are creating the movie of your life. What’s your movie like? Is it a drama? Comedy? A romantic film filled with love? A serious documentary? Is it full of art & passion? Is it like The King’s Speech where you triumph over challenge or like Black Swan full of internal struggle and finding your dark side?

Regardless of the current theme you are creating this movie every day with your choices. You are the producer, director, costume & set designer, cinematographer AND the star! You can adhere to the script or decide to change it. It’s all up to YOU the star! Your life is of great value. YOU are important and MATTER to your film. Your stellar performance in the film is deserving and worthy of the much sought after Oscar!

In your life, it is YOUR choice what part you’d like to play. Will it be a supporting role taking a back seat to the star? Of course not! You ARE the leading man/woman! You get to make all the decisions and one of them is living and being who you are. The most authentic starring role comes from within you. Bring out and live your truth, your heart and your passion.

Take out your Academy Award score card. After all it’s really your vote that counts! Look it over and if there are areas you’d like to strengthen, go ahead!Write an acceptance speech! When accepting your award there are many people who have played a supporting role in your life and learning. Make sure to include gratitude & appreciation in your speech. It is important to recognize the parts others have played. Even those painful learning experiences taught you something and added strength and fortitude to your character!

There you have it… YOU win the Oscar in every category! Accept it AND your part as the lead actor! Validate all the choices that you’ve made to get you where you are. The epic that was years in the making has added to your experience. There is value to everything you’ve been through and that gold statue is YOURS! Walk the red carpet! Accept YOURSELF with grace and gratitude! Most of all, never forget to keep creating and re-creating your movie until it and YOU are exactly how you want them to be!~Shine Your Light Debbie

Inspiration on the web:

Debra is a gifted clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer and intuitive coach providing insight and guidance to clients around the world. Based in Chicago, Debra also leads meditation workshops that help people awaken to their own truth and spiritual gifts. To schedule a session or for more information on readings and workshops please visit her website or send an email request to Debra@SpiritLightInsight.com .

Feb 10 2011

Romancing the Soul

Valentine’s day is almost here and love is in the air~ While this day is supposed to be a romantic, affectionate, love filled day for expressing love, giving gifts, cards, etc for many it is a day that glares and magnifies the loneliness of not having a significant other.

One can’t define how, why or who we love and there really are no adequate words to describe it. Love is a feeling, a vibration, an energy and until you actually experience it, it is mystifying and elusive. Love in its purest form exists within each one of us. Love is a state of being! The real mystery to finding love comes in the form of a question; Do you love yourself unconditionally?

I know that’s a loaded question to ask but it goes right to ‘the heart’ of the matter at hand! Many of us spend time seeking love from another when it’s really about opening our hearts to the one that matters most…OURSELVES. Vanity and ego aside you really are the most important person who can love you! When you embrace all of you and what’s in your heart then surround yourself with that vibration every cell and organ in your body feels loved! Your aura exudes love! There is love in the very air you breathe!

Being in your flow and bubble of love you are complete. If you are looking for someone to complete and validate you, you might want to begin by looking inside yourself to see where you feel incomplete, invalidated or if there is an empty place that you trying to fill up. Listen for that little voice inside your head and notice if you are beating yourself up. Be aware of what you tell yourself and where you judge yourself! Become aware of who you believe yourself to be and if you feel worthy and deserving of the love you seek. If you don’t have unconditional self-love and honor yourself, no matter who loves or validates you, it will always feel like something is missing!

If you’ve ever wondered why people seem to find love when they aren’t looking for it here lies the answer! Those people have turned love “inside out” and start living, giving, loving and honoring themselves. In essence, they open up to loving who they are and begin romancing their own spirit and soul.

Our toughest critic is usually ourself. If you are constantly critiquing or judging yourself…STOP IT! If you feel, tell yourself or believe something needs ‘fixing’ …STOP IT RIGHT NOW! If you’ve looked for love in all the wrong places and no one seems to be ‘the right fit’ …STOP RIGHT NOW and take a journey within to find those places where you don’t quite feel like you fit!

This is not to say that you should not want to share your life and the love you have in your heart. When you are complete and vibrate from a place of love it vibrates outward and ECHO‘s back to you. So let me ask you…do you want more love and romance in your life? Do you want an amazing and Grand Love Affair ? If so…begin romancing yourself!

Fill up with and surround yourself with love! Shower yourself with droplets of affection! Whisper sweet things to yourself! Buy yourself flowers! Write yourself a love letter! Light candles! Send yourself a valentine! Whatever love and romance means to you treat yourself to that very thing!

Give the most romantic fantasy you’ve ever had to yourself! Treat yourself as you want someone to treat you. If you can’t treat yourself the way you wish to be treated, why should someone else?

Starting today open up to loving yourself with no conditions. Romance your spirit and soul. Make every day Valentine’s Day and look for love in all the right places. The right place to look for love is inside you!~Shine Your Light Debbie

Inspiration on the web:

Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, intuitive coach and teacher helping people worldwide to awaken to their truth and heal the human spirit. For more information, to schedule a reading/coaching session and information on upcoming workshops & events please visit her website or send an email to Debra@SpiritLightInsight.com

Jan 7 2011

Coming Out of the Clairvoyant Closet~

I wanted to share with you a wonderful experience I had yesterday. It really illustrates how truly being who you are is not only one of the best gifts you can give yourself but how validating and magical it is for others as well!

In addition to clairvoyant readings/healings and spiritual coaching work that I do (which includes writing this blog) I sell Real Estate. It’s very rewarding to use my abilities to help someone buy or sell a home. A home is where the heart is! It is YOUR space! Helping someone find a physical home is not too different from helping them find their spiritual space and I’m passionate about both.

Although I have always used my spiritual gifts in my Real Estate biz, I’ve more or less been in the closet about it. Up until very recently sharing what I do on an energetic/vibrational level was pretty much out of the question! Energy, intuition and healing was not acceptable in the business sector.

In order to make a living, I quietly gave healings to homes I had listed for sale, to clients and occasionally I helped other agents by clearing energies out of homes they had trouble selling. Every now and again I had a client or colleague who expressed interest in the metaphysical world. Only then I would share what I do with them.

That is until yesterday! Yesterday, I decided to blow the doors open, come out of the clairvoyant closet, give 15 minute readings to my colleagues and actually do these reading sessions IN my real estate office!

In the most unlikely of places I was welcomed with open arms. Throughout the day I was fielding questions about readings, healings (both for homes and personal), and meditation. I also had the pleasure of hearing about what some of my colleagues were doing to clear the energy in properties!

Now there was a shocker! My colleagues, who do not consider themselves healers, intuitively knew that the energy in some homes did not feel comfortable so to clear it they were smudging with sage, sprinkling holy water and of course burying the upside down St Joseph statue in backyards. They did these things quietly and really didn’t speak of it.

In the process of reading 18 amazing people I watched profound healing taking place. I shared messages from loved ones who passed, and spiritual gifts were validated. SPIRIT was validated and more importantly, what was once whispered and unacceptable in the business world, at once became more acceptable.

This IS the shift in process. The more we validate our own spirit and share what we are doing with others, the more others have permission to validate what they instinctively know and feel and it cascades out touching many more. Yes, each one of us has a part to play in this vibrational shift!

Each one of us has some gift to give the world. Each gift, no matter what it is, creates positive energies that add to the whole! What was once unacceptable only becomes acceptable when we each decide as individuals to share it with the world!~Shine Your Light~ Debbie

VISIT ME ON THE WEB:

Jul 17 2010

Energy & Weight Loss~Part 1

Each one of us is an eternal spirit in a human body. Our bodies are precious and in this lifetime you have only one! Not only is it something to be to cared for, but loved as well.

While most of my blogs address the spiritual aspect of our lives, that is only half the picture. There is also this wonderful thing called your body!

It is possible that you are not happy with your body and you are interested in losing weight. Whether you want to lose a pound/kilo/stone (or more) it IS all about energy! This is part 1 of a clairvoyant look at body weight from an energetic perspective.

As a Weight Watcher meeting leader, having personally gotten rid of 86 lbs in 1996, I have not only experienced the weight loss process but have the opportunity each week to motivate and watch others on their journey.

Losing weight can be a daunting task. Anyone who’s ever tried to get rid of even a few pounds knows how difficult it can be. There is a process and of course everyone knows that it’s about calories taken in vs. calories burned.

That said, there is another piece to the puzzle and that piece is the energy that you hold in your spiritual body AND at a cellular level. When you clear the energy it makes the process of losing a lot smoother.

Physical body weight is actually there for a reason and it’s different for each person. There are people who want to cover up their pain or not be seen. Some have so much attention on them and/or are so sensitive to energy that they use it to protect their inner self.

People use food to comfort their hurts and then hold on to the weight like a warm blanket. Some use food to fill a void. For some food= love, happiness and family, while others use the weight to become grounded and make the body feel real.

Of course those are not ALL the reasons but they are what I see most consistently. So why keep on the weight? Well, at an unconscious level it can be a protection, a way to feel safe like being in a cocoon and/or can act as a ‘buffer’ between you and others.

No matter ’why’, becoming conscious & aware of your body and what’s going on INSIDE is an important step! There is always a healing of the inner self in the process of losing weight and keeping it off.

Take time to care for you! Close your eyes, take a deep breath. Be aware of your body and how it feels. Wiggle your fingers and toes! Ask your body what it wants or needs. Thank your body for all it does for you! You may put your body through a lot each day!

Now, stop beating yourself up if you aren’t perfect! ENERGY & WEIGHT LOSS ~Part 2 is full of practical tips to help your process along.

Loving & caring for body AND spirit is an empowering journey that I guarantee will change your life! Who knows, you might even be a BIG FAT LOSER…but in terms of weight loss, that makes you a WINNER! ~Shine Your Light Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010

VISIT ME ON THE WEB:

Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping people heal their spirit so they can create and live the life they choose. For more information, to schedule a reading or coaching visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.

Jun 18 2010

Who are you?

Who are you? Have you ever been asked that question or asked it of yourself? A few months back as a guest on Allie Cheslick’s Wings of Love radio show I was asked that very question and I gave the answer that I was prepared to give.

It was answer that I had rehearsed knowing Allie would ask me. My answer was “I am a spiritual being having a human experience.” There I said it! That is who I am!

I remember clearly as Allie said something to the effect of ‘OK that’s good but WHO ARE YOU..WHO IS DEBRA TAITEL AND WHERE DO YOU COME FROM ….REALLY?’ Honestly for a moment I felt like a deer in the headlights! How do I answer that?

I took a deep breath and immediately realized that I had never really talked about who I am and what it was like growing up being sensitive to energy with an awareness that was very different from those around me. I took my abilities for granted. Now I consider them a gift.

In my head childhood scenes started playing out. How many times had I rehearsed the answer I thought someone wanted to hear? How many times did I try to be like someone else or fit into a group because at some level I felt that “who I was” wasn’t good enough?

That radio show was pivotal in my growth and has allowed me to examine all those places and pictures that I was not only living from, but showing to other people. If you’ve ever asked why someone can’t see you for who you are, you may want to ask yourself if you are BEING who you really are.

Many people are awakening to who they are as spirit. You’ve heard the saying there is so much more to you than meets the eye. Well, I see a lot of people beginning to open their eyes to the “more”and in many ways it’s like awakening from a deep slumber.

Sometimes you need to yawn, stretch and contemplate if what you experienced in your “dream” was really true. If you get up too quickly, you can feel a bit dizzy but if you open your eyes and allow them to focus, then plant your feet firmly on the ground your awakening can be a beautiful epiphany with many more to come!

So WHO ARE YOU? Are you living life from your heart? Do you have a passion or gift that you’d like to share with the world but someone once told you that you weren’t good enough, you shouldn’t or couldn’t? Have you ever considered that who you’ve “tried” to be wasn’t really you?

Take a journey within and find YOU! Let go of the rest. When you live from the truth of who you are, you don’t need rehearsal…it’s just YOU BEING YOU and who you are becoming!

I AM Debra Taitel a spiritual being having a human experience and yes, there is much more to me than meets the eye! How about you? WHO ARE YOU?~ Shine your light Debbie

This blog is dedicated with love, gratitude and appreciation to Allie Cheslick for her friendship and occasional kick in the butt. And Alison Baughman who first invited me into the radio world as a guest on her Visible by Numbers radio broadcast.

©Debra Taitel 2010

VISIT ME ON THE WEB:

Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping people heal their spirit so they can create and live the life they choose. For more information or to schedule a reading please visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.

May 3 2010

Permission to Heal?

Are you seeking permission to heal yourself? Interesting question isn’t it?! I ask because it really IS worth taking a look at if you are taking steps to clear out old energies and programming that have defined your life to this point.

Much of how we have shaped our lives was ‘programmed’ in from a very young age. Remember the game “Mother may I….”? How validating when “mother” said you could take 2 steps forward!

Asking ‘permission’ was literally programmed into our reality! You had to get permission from your teachers to speak by raising your hand and if you were going on a field trip (ie something different from the normal) you needed a permission slip from your parents! You asked permission to go out and play or get up from the dinner table. In your adult life, you need to get permission from your boss to merely take a day off.

I’m sure at some point in your life you’ve heard; “We love you just the way you are…” or “I love you, don’t ever change…” or how about this little ditty=>”You’re doing a great job! Keep doing what you’re doing…”

Now it’s great to hear those things BUT those statements can actually get in the way of your growth if YOU want to create something different or expand your life experience. You may find yourself in fear of letting go or creating something new unless you get permission to do so.

Seeking permission is really looking outside yourself to validate that you are taking the right step. You are asking for someone else’s permission to validate that what YOU want to heal or create is the right choice.

Well here’s the deal. NO ONE KNOWS BETTER THAN YOU WHAT THE RIGHT CHOICE IS FOR YOU! Yes, I put that in caps to make the point:-) When you take the time to look within to find what you really want, it is your truth and you don’t need anyone else’s permission to grow, change and create! SOOO write yourself a permission slip! Trust in YOU and your choices! Give YOURSELF permission to heal and transform!

Now… in the grand scheme of things if you are STILL looking for permission to heal, grow, create change and live from your true authentic self==>>PERMISSION GRANTED! Shine your Light~Debbie

SpiritLightInsight.com

Related articles

One small change, changes EVERYTHING! (dailymuse.spiritlightinsight.com)
You can’t do it for someone else….. (dailymuse.spiritlightinsight.com)
Permission to think in ways others do not imagine (hrmexplorer.wordpress.com)

Apr 27 2010

Have you found your “V” spot?

Did I get your attention with the title of this post? I hope it doesn’t disappoint you to find out that what I’ll be talking about is VALIDATION! Specifically, your ability to validate YOURSELF.

Several years back actor (now Senator) Al Franken did a sketch on Saturday Night Live called “Daily Affirmations with Stuart Smalley.”

At the end of the sketch Stuart looks into the mirror and says, “I’m GOOD enough, I’m SMART enough and doggone it, people like me!”

Although the sketch was written as a spoof of self-help groups, there may be a great deal of insight in it. When was the last time you VALIDATED yourself like that?

I’ll take it even one step farther and ask; When was the last time someone validated YOU and you said something to the effect of “Thanks! But…..”?

In day-to-day life many people are looking outside themselves for validation. Then when someone finally validates them, they put a negative on it. The minute they say “but”, they’ve completely negated the validation and INvalidated themselves!

I also notice people constantly beating themselves up. They don’t think they have the perfect body or perfect relationship. They feel they are doing something wrong if someone doesn’t like them or someone doesn’t agree with how they are handling a situation.

The reality is that there is PLENTY of invalidation floating around out there and if you don’t validate yourself, guess what? On an energetic level the invalidation sticks like glue and you actually ATTRACT more of it too you!

Have you done something brilliant, won an award or had an amazing breakthrough and you still don’t feel it’s good enough? Do you beat yourself up for one thing or another? Are you constantly looking for validation from another for your creations?

Is there something you’d like to create but have decided you’re not good enough to do it? Do you have a great idea but are concerned you’ll be laughed at or ridiculed if you present it?

Do you beat yourself up because you feel you are too fat, too thin, too tall or short? It may even be that ‘you’ve never been successful at it before’ so you invalidate all the GOOD steps you are taking NOW.

I know this wouldn’t apply to any of you…but then again, there may be a line or two that resonates with you. If so….FIND YOUR “V” SPOT!

What do I mean by that? Well, there are several ways to do it. One thing you can do while meditating is to imagine in your mind’s eye the color of your own self validation. It’s OK to make it up, it will still work!

Allow that color to grow & expand then bring the image in through the top of your head until you are sitting in a bubble of it. Feel the vibration throughout your body, filling up every cell.

Notice any INvalidation effortlessly falling away as you do this. Sit and BE in the flow of your own validation! Validate all those wonderful things about you! Your beautiful spirit, loving heart, creative mind and immortal soul!

Now, look in the mirror and smile as you look into your own eyes and say, “I’M GOOD ENOUGH, I’M SMART ENOUGH AND DOGGONE IT, PEOPLE LIKE ME!”

When you do this you have truly found your “V” spot! Your ~V~alidation ~V~ibration! Shine your Light~Debbie

VISIT ME ON THE WEB:

Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping people heal their spirit so they can create and live the life they choose. She has been a featured guest on Wings of Love and Visible by Numbers radio broadcasts. For more information or to schedule a reading please send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com or visit her website.

Apr 17 2010

You are a PRICELESS GEM!

YOU are a priceless diamond!! You are multi-faceted, have your own unique color, clarity, depth and sparkle! There is no way to put a value on all that is you! YOU ARE PRICELESS!

As you may know, a diamond starts out as a very hard rock and must be cut & polished to become a brilliant shining gem.

There is an art to cutting and the rock is so hard that it must cut with diamond-bladed edges. So, in order to create the shiny diamond, a diamond must be used!

Once the diamond has been cut to its perfect shape, it must be polished to reveal its true depth, clarity and sparkle. Have you caught on to where I’m going with this yet?

Are you a diamond in the rough surrounded and stuck in what seems like a ‘rock’ of programming and you are waiting to artfully cut yourself out?

Have you uncovered who you are, finding your perfect ‘shape’ and want to polish up so you can sparkle and shine even more brilliantly?

What sometimes can feel like a hard impenetrable rock is energy and you don’t need to be stuck in the middle of it! Much like using a diamond-bladed edge to cut a diamond, your energy, which belongs in your space, can cut through the ’rock’ effortlessly and the rest falls away!

Although cutting a diamond requires specialized knowledge, tools, equipment, and techniques because of its extreme hardness, a diamond cutter didn’t miraculously wake up with all the techniques and equipment, knowing what to do. They had a little help and direction along the way!

Meditation is a wonderful tool to help you reveal and bring back your sparkle! Once you let go of the ‘rock’ you’ll shine up quite nicely don’t you think!

You already have your answers within. You already know who you are, what you want to create and how to live from your brilliant self if you choose to!

What can happen is there are times when you get so caught up in the middle of other energies, you can lose a bit of perspective. Your brilliance can get dulled. Even a diamond needs to be cleaned every now and then.

If you don’t quite feel like a master diamond cutter yet that’s ok! Every skill takes time to master If you don’t have the tools, you can learn them and by all means don’t hesitate to ask for some help and direction along the way!

You are a precious gem to behold! Just uncover, polish and shine up your sparkly self! Remember that you are priceless and feeling anything less is not your energy! Shine on you crazy diamonds! ~Shine your light! Debbie

This blog was inspired by Jessica Smith of Story Kraft Kreative and Ask and Allow Online after she created for me what I consider a STUNNING Twitter site! I’m not only grateful and appreciate all the work she did but feel truly blessed to have her in my life as a good friend! Thanks Jess!

Follow Debra as Spiritlightmuse on twitter! For more information on Debra’s readings please visit her website at Spiritlightinsight.com You may contact her or schedule a reading by sending an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com

Mar 31 2010

PERFECTLY PERFECT YOU!

Have you ever taken a moment to consider that you are a perfectly PERFECT being?! Your energy is perfect! Your essence as a being is perfect!

Your very perfect energy FEELS GOOD in your body! It flows through you! When you have YOUR energy in your body and the space around you there is a sense of ease.

Your energy feels familiar, comfortable and powerful all at the same time! Your spiritual energy vibration is YOURS! It belongs to you and only YOU!

If you’ve never thought about how perfect you are…WHY NOT? This is not about ego. In fact take the ego part of it out of the equation because what I’m talking about has nothing to do with ego. It’s about YOU the spiritual being and YOUR energy!

Your unique spirit came into the physical body to have a variety of experiences. Some are considered “good”, some are considered “bad” but nonetheless they are experiences and you learn from them. This is the HUMAN part

What is happening in your life and everything going on around you is just that….an experience. Those experiences are all OUTSIDE of you. They are not who you are nor should they define you. When you embrace your perfect BEING-NESS by turning your attention within you can sit back comfortably and watch the show!

As human beings we are far from perfect. It could even be said that we are IMperfect! But consider for a moment what PERFECTLY IMPERFECT human beings we are! Yes I think we are ALL perfectly imperfect in one way or another.

When you are being a perfectly IMperfect Human that is the time to remind yourself that there is so much more to you! Remind yourself that your spirit is perfect and everything else is a learning experience.

So next time you are moving through a perfectly imperfect human experience, remember that you are a perfectly perfect being! Turn your attention within and forgive yourself. Embrace ALL that you are, WHO you are meant to be, and WHAT you want to create!

Now, repeat after me…I AM A PERFECTLY PERFECT BEING, being human AND A PERFECTLY IMPERFECT HUMAN being! Therefore *I’M*PERFECT! Shine your light~Debbie

This blog was inspired from a status post by my Facebook friend Jen Reynolds. Thank you for the inspiration Jen! Photo by Doc Eugenios Thank you Doc!

For nearly 20 years Debra has been doing clairvoyant readings, spiritual healings and teaching meditation workshops. She has been a featured guest on Wings of Love and Visible by Numbers radio broadcasts.

For more information on Debra’s readings please visit her website at Spiritlightinsight.com You may contact her by email at Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com

Daily Muse

A Clairvoyant Look at Everyday Life

Tag Archives: Validation

Finding Validation in an Invalidating World….

And the Oscar goes to….YOU!

Romancing the Soul

Coming Out of the Clairvoyant Closet~

Energy & Weight Loss~Part 1

Who are you?

Permission to Heal?

Have you found your “V” spot?

You are a PRICELESS GEM!

PERFECTLY PERFECT YOU!

Follow “Daily Muse”

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Share this:

Like this:

Follow “Daily Muse”