FAITH – Page 7 – Daily Muse

This post is to answer your questions about energy, healing and spirit. The questions come from real people and the answers given are not the ONLY answers but merely a brief snapshot of what could be a full blog post in and of themselves. In the future I’ll post more of these so feel free to ask questions on my Spiritlightinsight Clairvoyant Readings by Debra Facebook Page.

Steve asks: “What percent of a person do you think is special and unique from everyone else? My theory is that although everyone is unique, we all have more in common than difference. And that for some it means finding that unique energy, and for others, it means losing the unique energy to fit in with society. What is your experience when working with others?”

Answer: In reading your question I see two very unique thoughts coming through. If I were to assign a percentage it would be 100%. Each and every one of us has a unique energy. No ones energy is exactly the same as another. No two people create or vibrate in the same way and each of us have different thought processes in addition to our ‘being-ness’. Yes, we have a lot in common however we are individuals. One never loses their unique energy but one might be living from someone else’s truth. Working with clients what I see most often is they have accepted programming, invalidation and/or limits as their own truth. In a reading session I guide them back to their own truth and unique energy. A simple ‘hello’ to someone’s spirit acknowledges them as being more than their circumstances and allows them to heal, take back their power and feel ‘visible’ in a world where often times one feels invisible and insignificant.

Cindy asks: “How does one heal with the loss of someone?”

Answer: This is one of the most difficult things to do and I truly think everyone heals in their own way and their own time. When I work with clients healing from loss of a loved one the first thing I do is help them release the energy grief of others so they can heal their own grief. When someone passes they collect up their energy to take their step out of the body. This is why one feels ’empty’. Focus on the beautiful memories and give yourself time. The physical body needs time to heal and the grieving process and release is a part of it. Embrace the process and know the person (or pet) will forever be in your heart and that their spirit is alive and well on the other side. There many resources to help you heal. Psychic Medium Mark Anthony’s book “Never Letting Go” is about healing with help from the other side. He also has a wonderful FB group called “Never Letting Go”.

Psychic Medium Allie Cheslick asks: “Why are there folks in the Metaphysical community who preach non judgment but then do exactly the opposite?”

Answer: It’s called spiritual competition and sadly it’s prevalent in the metaphysical community. Judgement is an energy and one of the reasons it takes over is because the “judges” have lost their space to fame, or their clients and/or students. Unfortunately this occasionally translates to them judging clients as well. It’s invalidating when one is not acknowledged as a human being with feelings who is hurting and desperately seeking answers and/or in need of a healing. As a part of the metaphysical community my goal is to own my space and not get caught up in what I call the psychic drama of who’s the best and most accurate. It’s not for us to judge or become the authority for someone else. There are many healing modalities, types of readings, styles etc. One way is not necessarily better than another one. For me it’s about healing the spirit and guiding a client to find their own truth because ultimately every person has the answers they seek within them. Sometimes people just need a bit of help healing to get ‘unstuck’ so they can see the bigger picture and find their own truth.

My answers may not be your answers nor do I answer for the entire metaphysical community but that’s my 2 cents worth (hopefully) from neutral! 🙂 ~Shine Your Light Debbie

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As the end of the year approaches it’s time to think about ‘resolutions’ for the new year. It’s also the time to take notice and celebrate your achievements from the last 12 months. The time is NOW to join the EVOLUTION REVOLUTION and resolve to evolve!

What are your resolutions for the coming year? Many people make “body” resolutions like losing weight, quitting smoking or being more active. These resolutions are great AND very beneficial for your good health. Have you considered making resolutions to grow and change your spirit as well? Your spiritual resolutions are equally important! They could include a daily meditation practice, daily prayer, following your dreams, expanding inner calm & peace, being more loving and living life from non judgement with awareness.

When you include and put into practice your spiritual goals for the year you create tremendous change, expand your inner (and outer) universe, live from your truth and evolve as spirit! These resolutions bring you back to your spiritual self and knowing who you are. They also help you with the other resolutions because as your attention turns within you are less affected by other energies that constantly pull you away from what you really want!

Keep in mind that New Year’s resolutions often fizzle quickly and I’ve listed a few reasons why this happens. I’ve also listed positive steps you can take so yours don’t fizzle this year.

There was no plan for taking the necessary steps to reach the goal. Make a plan! If you want to lose weight for instance, what needs to happen for you to do it?
The goal wasn’t realistic and within your control. Be realistic! Make sure it’s a good fit for your life and it’s in your control. If it’s out of your control and not a good fit you probably will give up on it.
The expectation was it would happen over night. Start slowly! If you resolve to meditate each day start with 5 or 10 minutes. If you’ve never meditated you are not going to be able to miraculously sit down and quiet your mind for an hour a day.
Impatience & punishment for perceived failure. Patience and forgiveness are the keys for successfully achieving your resolutions. If you stumble forgive yourself and be patient. Get right back up and try again!
Maybe it’s not YOUR resolution. Turn your attention inward and make sure that your resolution is something YOU want and not based on a picture or concept of someone else’s.

Evolution, which includes growth & healing, is a gradual process in which something changes into a different and usually better form. Spiritually there is no time or space but it does take time to manifest in the physical. To begin the process it’s a good idea to do a little review. What were your new year’s resolutions from last year? What manifested? Where were you successful? What inspired you? In order to know where you’re going, you need to know where you’ve been! Turn your attention within to reflect upon what worked, what didn’t, the dreams that manifested, the changes you’ve made and how far you’ve come in the last year.

Celebrate and honor your successes from last year!

Positive change must be grounded by a strong foundation and your successes ARE that foundation. Building on what you already have achieved instead of betting your success on the unknown starts that positive change, well, POSITIVELY. 🙂 When you know you are and have been successful in the past you trust yourself and there will be no doubts about your ability to do, have or create something NEW in the future.

Come on! What are you waiting for? Build your foundation for the future! Join the evolution revolution! Make caring for mind, body, spirit and soul a priority by resolving to evolve!~Shine Your Light Debbie

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