Choose You

If you’re in effort “trying” to let go, there’s a better way!

If you’re in effort “trying” to let go, there’s a better way! Shift your focus.

Why? Because choosing to let go is never really about letting go.

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The moment you decide you want to let go of something is the moment  you are choosing YOU over anything else. You are making yourself a priority and choosing to take back your power from that which you’ve previously given power to. You are choosing to let it be, to forgive.

Doing this releases your energy and allows you to heal and return to wholeness. In essence, you are making the decision to free yourself from the past and choosing to take a different path. A path that leads towards something new.

Next time you’re in effort “trying” to let go ask yourself if what you are trying to let go of is more important that you. Ask yourself if you really want that person or situation to continue to be more important than you.

Yes, it’s ok to laugh because the truth is that you KNOW you never have to “try” to let go when you choose YOU. All you ever have to do is choose YOU.

Now, give yourself a deep cleansing breath and decide if you want to stay divided or whole. Decide if you want to stay mesmerized by a picture that, at some point, became more important than you OR choose differently. Choose YOU.~Shine Your Light Debbie 

©Debra Taitel 2018 All Rights Reserved

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Debra Taitel is a gifted Clairvoyant Visionary, Energy Healer, Spiritual Teacher and Intuitive Business Consultant providing insight and guidance to clients around the world. In addition to her clairvoyant readings, business consulting and healing work Debra also offers one to one personal empowerment sessions and leads meditation workshops to help people heal and awaken to their own truth and spiritual gifts.

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Dreaming of Love

Looking for Unconditional Love

Dreaming of LoveI found this passage from Orion Mountain Dreamer and it struck me with so much truth. When looking for love are you only looking skin deep or do you want to know those things behind the facade?

True unconditional love is found in getting to know the ALL… What lies beneath the superficial…..the good, the bad and everything in between.

It also take a great deal of introspection and courage to know these things (within our own hearts and minds) about ourselves. Maybe the following isn’t even about what someone wants to know about another but a way to go within to know ourselves at a deep, profound level.

“It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.
It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain! I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it’s not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”
It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.”~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer

Take a moment to breathe in and ponder what you just read. Are you open to knowing these things about another? More importantly, if someone were to tell you they would like to get to know ALL of you how would you answer? What would you share and would you be brave enough to share it?~Shine Your Light Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2017 All Rights Reserved

SpiritLightInsight.com

Debra Taitel is a gifted Clairvoyant Visionary, Energy Healer, Author, and Intuitive Business Consultant providing insight and guidance to clients around the world. In addition to her clairvoyant readings, business consulting and healing work Debra also offers one to one personal empowerment sessions and leads meditation workshops to help people heal and awaken to their own truth and spiritual gifts.