Relationships – Page 11

This week’s theme for the week is making it real. Making it real not only means manifesting those things your working on but having them and bringing the energy into your body to FEEL and be a part of it. What good is manifesting if you there’s no space for it or you can’t have whatever it is?

Often times in reading sessions a trend emerges. These trends are certain common themes several people are working on. This past week every person I read was working not just to mock-up (create) what they wanted but to actually bring it in, make it real and FEEL the energy in their body.

How do you make it real?

In order to make it real you have to make space for it both energetically and physically. Think of this as feng shui for spirit & body. 🙂 Making it real starts with clearing out what is not real (lies or programming you’ve perhaps bought in to) and raising your havingness for what you want. Again this means making space for something new to come in. While meditating, instead of the focusing on those things you want to let go of, allow yourself to bring in and fill up with YOUR energy vibration. Doing this will attract those things you want because your energy is…well…attractive! 🙂 How much can you have? Can you have all of YOU? If not I would definitely recommend you start there. If you can’t have YOU how can you have all those things you want?

How do you make a space for it?

Feng shui your physical and energetic space! Create beautiful surroundings that bring you peace, calm and happiness. Your physical space has an effect on your spiritual space and visa versa. Here are some examples: If you’re looking for relationship is there a space for it? Can you have it? Making physical space for a relationship is as simple as sleeping on one side of the bed so there’s a space for someone else on the other side or cleaning out your closet and making room for someone else’s clothing. In terms of law of attraction by doing this you are creating a space for someone else and shifting your energy so it feels like they are already there!

You must also clear out and make a space in your heart. If you are angry, your thoughts are filled with painful memories of past relationships or you are bitter over a break up, there is no space for love. Bring your own unique vibration of love into your heart and allow it to cascade out so you are sitting in a bubble of that energy. Again, don’t worry about letting go. Filling up with YOU clears the energy too!

If you’re looking for a job, what are you doing each day? Often times if you find a part-time job doing something you love, even if you don’t have the job you are seeking, energetically you are working. Your energy shifts into work mode and by doing something you love (even if it’s volunteering) you’ll feel good about yourself and begin to project that vibration out into the world. You are also out there being seen. If you’re sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself guess what gets sent out into the universe?

Whatever it is YOU are working on, making it real begins with having space. When both your physical and energetic space are in harmony, you can expand and create space for something new! Make it real inside AND out!~Shine Your Light Debbie

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Today I found out that one of my friends who was in fact my next door neighbor growing up, passed away suddenly at age of 50. We had just recently re-connected on Facebook and he took the time to reach out to me via private email. He asked me to call him to catch up which I very much wanted to do.

I never made that phone call. Not because I didn’t want to but I was in the middle of a dark moment of my own and needed to keep busy and to heal. A sad excuse to be sure. I’ll call tomorrow, I told myself, but after a few months I still hadn’t made the call.

Life is too short to dwell on the past or worry about the future. Imagine if you logged the time spent not living life to its fullest. How much time do you spend worrying about things that you have no control over? How much time do you spend lamenting about something in the past that you can’t change? How many times were you just ‘too busy’ to make the call? How much time do you spend worrying about a future that is only yours to create from the present?

This reminds me of the Harry Chapin song “Cats in the Cradle”. All those times we intend to re-connect, spend time with someone, tell someone we love them or forgive them are merely intention and while the intention is there unless you act on it, your moment might just pass; You never know if tomorrow you might not be able to do it.

Back in 1980 there was a man I re-connected with after living out of the country. It was a beautiful night, the moon was bright and the stars were shining. I so wanted to tell him I loved him but was afraid of his reaction. That night he asked me to call him in the morning. On my way home that night I decided to tell him when I saw him the next day. I called in the morning. His father answered the phone and told me he had been shot and killed after I left him. To this day if there is something I want to tell someone I tell them without fear or regret.

Life is much to short to spend it worrying. There should never be a time when you are too busy to pick up that phone and make amends, tell someone you love them or go on that lunch date. Don’t let time slip between your fingers until it’s too late. You never know what tomorrow will bring.

Live well, follow your passion, laugh often and spend real TIME with those you love. If you’ve intended on doing it, make time in your busy schedule to re-connect, reach out, forgive and tell someone you love them. How about right NOW? ~Shine Your Light Debbie

This blog is dedicated to and in memory of Alan Wolkoff. Rest in peace my friend.

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