Hey! Where’s the remote?

In this wonderful age of technology there are remote controls for everything. There are even remotes that control ALL the remotes so you only need one rather than one for each item.

They take care of changing channels, music, turning on your lights, and you can even start your car from the comfort of the chair you are sitting in!

I had to laugh when the new air conditioner in my bedroom came with a remote. Really now! My bedroom is only 16 feet across! Needless to say, I love using it.

I can lie in bed, change the temperature or turn it off without moving. I also get a kick out of it because it’s just plain ridiculous! Have we really turned into a society based on comfort and remote controls? 🙂

How about your life? Have you ever felt like someone had control over your life? If you’ve ever felt out of control, you may want to ask yourself; Whose control are you out of? Who holds the remote and changes the channel? Is it you?

Have you noticed that when you try to take time for yourself, meditate or god forbid create something new, how much energy there is that says you can’t change the program? Are there energies or emotions in your life that seem to take over?

If you feel as if something is controlling you, you might very well be right! There are many things that have been programmed into our lives. Some of those things are so ingrained within that it’s a challenge to distinguish what is  programming and what is our truth.

As you awaken and open up more to separating your truth from say, your mother’s or father’s programming, it can be uncomfortable. It can be especially difficult when it comes to relationships, jobs or even how you choose to live your life.

In many ways the economy is helping people change the channel to the program THEY want to watch. 🙂 I’ve seen attorneys become massage therapists, executives deciding to choose quality of life over bringing in money, and on an even broader scale, people are deciding to create or work on something they are passionate about rather than go back to a job that controlled them each day.

Earlier I mentioned that I thought my remote was ridiculous. On second thought, maybe it’s not! When you have a remote, it’s easy to change the channel! You just push the button and it instantly clears the old program to the one you want to see! Perhaps life is much the same.

When YOU hold the remote YOU are in control! You can change the program at will and with ease! Why not take a moment to see if YOU hold the remote. If not, take it back! Then if it’s time to change the channel, go ahead! There’s nothing stopping you when YOU are in control! 🙂 ~Shine Your Light Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010

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Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping people heal their spirit so they can create and live the life they choose. For more information, to schedule a reading or coaching visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.

In Spirit We Trust….

In a recent conversation with Elliott Eli Jackson author of “From God to You the Absolute Truth” regarding a challenge I was having, Elliott asked me ‘what do you desire?’  

A short time later he said ‘once you have stated what it is you desire, let it go and let spirit do the rest. That simple question and statement  prompted an illuminating and very empowering moment.

After a few minutes of thinking about exactly what it was that I desired, I responded.  It felt good to actually SAY it out loud…Then at the end of my statement came the words ‘but what if….?’

The very instant the words ‘but what if…’ came out of my mouth I realized that much of my attention had been outside of me trying to ‘figure out’ what was going on! 

While those may not have been the exact words, the exact words really don’t matter because it is more about knowing & trusting that spirit is involved and taking care of things in ways we can’t fathom. The healing begins when you trust yourself enough to state what YOU really desire.

Although it seems simple, which it is, it may not always be easy! There are energies and pictures that come up as you  state your truth.  Many of those energies are based on fear, judgement and invalidation. None of which are YOURS!

Have you noticed that when you begin to focus on what you desire your thoughts immediately shift to ‘but what if…?’ You may notice fear that you aren’t good enough to HAVE what you desire.

It could be that you are afraid of hearing the answer or that you might make a wrong choice. You may notice invalidation of your body to attract the right partner or that what you desire isn’t what someone else desires. 

Whatever comes up for you, the ‘what if” energy doubts are NOT your truth so you can’t solve them, however you can certainly CLEAR and let them go!

Your inner voice will lead to your truth so trust it!  Trust that your spirit self and the universe will take care of HOW to make your deepest desires reality. You are a child of universal spirit and worthy of all your dreams.

You KNOW what YOU desire! Why not state it and focus on that vibration clearly with no ‘ifs’, ‘ands’ or ‘buts’? There is no fear, judgement or invalidation in this! 🙂

Decide what it is that you desire and align yourself with it. Communicate your desire clearly…state it out loud! If you notice any energy of doubt or fear just let them go and allow the universe & spirit take care of the rest!

Trust in spirit and your inner wisdom. Trust in yourself for you are wiser than you may give yourself credit for! Trust the universe and that all good things are already on their way to you!~Shine Your Light Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010

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Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping people heal their spirit so they can create and live the life they choose. For more information or to schedule a reading please visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.