Although I’ve been working on another post,  as we head into this Valentine’s weekend it seems most appropriate to talk about matters of the heart 🙂 LOVE, ROMANCE AND LOVE AFFAIRS! Now, how fun is that?! What if I told you that you can have the most amazing, passionate, romantic love affair you’ve ever experienced? Well, you CAN and it all begins with YOU!

Love is an energy vibration that already exists within you. It is not something outside of you that you have to go looking for. I recently came across a quote: “Seeking love outside yourself stops you from realizing it within.” (~Author Unknown) Personally I think that quote gets right to the heart of the matter! 😉

Think of it in these terms: What does it feel like when you are attracted to someone when you first meet? There are sparks! You light up! There are butterflies in your stomach! Your heart skips a beat! What is causes that? I can tell you some certainty that what you are feeling is YOUR energy coming alive! When you fall IN LOVE you are in YOUR love! 

When it rains it pours! Feast or famine! Have you ever noticed that when you are in love and having an amazing love affair how much attention you get? I have  many single friends who tell me they either don’t have any dates or the dates are coming fast and furious!  Have you or do you know someone who met a special someone “when least expected?”  It is more than likely that you stopped looking and decided to just go with the flow. In other words, you turned your attention within and began living life from what makes you happy. Other people NOTICE that energy! !

When you generate the your own unique energy of love, and have YOUR energy in YOUR space there is nothing more attractive. So I ask you now to look inside yourself and take notice of how much you love yourself.  Humor me here and use your psychic ability…just for fun! If you don’t want to call it being psychic then use your imagination! 🙂

What do you see? How do you feel about yourself and your body?  Have you “lost that lovin’ feeling”? Have you ever said something to the effect of ‘I gave it everything I had’. Newsflash!  If you’re not feeling romance, love and passion…not to mention the grandest energy of all…what it feels like when you are having a love affair, you may have given it away!

If you feel empty inside…you ARE! You gave away your energy! Here’s the good news! You can call back your energy, generate it from within and have a love affair with yourself! This is not about ego. It’s about loving yourself, romancing yourself and feeling good about ALL you are and WHO you are. It’s about you having the energy to be able to GIVE to someone! It’s about being in and generating YOUR love vibration and having affinity for yourself!  How can someone love you the way you want to be loved if you don’t love yourself that way? How can someone treat you the way you wish to be treated if you don’t do that for yourself? How can someone respect you if you don’t respect yourself?

Whether you are seeking love or have found it but don’t feel that romantic spark check in with yourself to see how you are feeling. If you are not feeling like you are having the grandest love affair of your life…CALL BACK YOUR ENERGY! Fill up with all that is YOU! Write yourself a love letter! Send yourself a valentine! Begin to generate from within all that love you have to give and see what happens! Have a grand love affair with yourself and see who else wants to join in! HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY! Shine your love light~Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010

For nearly 20 years Debra has been doing clairvoyant readings and teaching classes on meditation & spiritual healing. For more information on clairvoyant readings please visit her website at You  can contact her directly at


  1. Debbie,

    This is a beautiful post! This made me feel soo good! I loved the ending, so prefect!

    I can relate to this, when we are loving to self and are highly energetic and have high respect for self. Others see it and are drawn to it, it is both a beautiful and wonderful thing!

    With love and blessings!


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