Who wrote the script?

Wouldn’t it be great if we all had a team of writers working on the script of our lives? They would write, edit and re-write as needed to make it interesting. All of our interactions would be exactly as written so you would know not only how to respond but how the others will respond to you.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if there was an award-winning director and producer? They would tell you where to stand, what to do and even HOW to say your lines so they are most effective.

Your dialogue and actions would be written BEFORE you receive the script but as with every masterfully written manuscript, once in motion, there are things that don’t  work or fit into the scene. This causes an on the spot change. Sometimes even the best laid plans don’t work as well as one would think.

Clearly life would be easier if it came with the perfect script but of course this is not the case. We all must walk our journey and although we have a vision, at times we must consider a re-write or re-direction on the spot.

Sometimes our choices are not thought out well the instant we need to make them and so we learn to make our way more delicately next time. There is no script or handbook for life especially when emotions take over. With no direction, rehearsal or ‘re-write’ we must live with our choices.

Good or bad, right or wrong there are times when what we do or say becomes less of a choice and more a reaction. Being human is just that, being human! Having emotions and feelings are two of our greatest gifts!

Consider for a moment forgiving yourself for those times when your humanity took over! It is OK to venture from the script, try something new and YES make a mistake! This is all part of being human.

If there is a script in place who wrote it? Was it you? It is indeed possible that the path you are following is someone else’s script! Your well-meaning parents (or someone else) could have written it or if you wrote it, check to see if it is based on someone else’s novel.

You cannot live an authentic life and be the best YOU if you are following someone else’s information no matter how well-meaning it is. No one knows how to be the best you except YOU!

If any aspect of your life feels scripted or controlled, take it as a clear sign that someone other than you may be producing & directing! If the script you have in hand doesn’t feel right it might be time for a re-write or perhaps a brand new script altogether! 🙂

To be sure, it is not easy to play yourself! Especially if you don’t know who that self is! You may have lived by someone else’s script or direction for so long that your ‘role’ has become your truth.

The most rewarding role you play in this lifetime is one of being the best YOU. If you are not happy with the way things are going, maybe it’s time to change direction!

The production and direction of your life comes from finding the passion that burns within. Discover and awaken to that passion and BE the best YOU living your own script.~Shine Your Light Debbie

A special shout out and thanks to a dear friend who repeatedly reminds me to be the best ME I can be. 🙂

©Debra Taitel 2010 All rights reserved 

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Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping to heal the human spirit. For more information, to schedule a reading, coaching or find out about upcoming workshops & events please visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.

The Benefits of ‘Home’ Ownership

 

Artwork by Amy Justen "De Brasil con Amor" Collection

 To own your own home is a wonderful thing. After all, you OWN it! It is your space. You can decorate to your heart’s content. Re-decorate at any time and if you are so inclined, you can completely demolish and reconfigure the whole thing!

There are many benefits to owning your home but of course, there is the responsibility for the upkeep as well. Things get old and need replacing. It has to be cleaned, vacuumed and at times, you must remove unwanted “guests” such as spiders or other nasty little free loaders.

Those of you who often read my blog can probably already guess where I’m going with this. If you are a new reader, welcome to “Daily Muse” and please read on. 🙂

Whether or not you own the ‘place’ where you live, you already have your own home. Home really IS where the heart is!Your home is your BODY and there are amazing benefits to owning it and being HOME.

Your home is your sanctuary. A place to rest and be yourself. Your home holds your answers. When you own your home which includes the space within & around it, there is ease. It is a comfortable place for your spirit to live.

When was the last time you checked in with yourself to see what is inside? When you look there do you find it decorated to someone else’s tastes? Is it a comfortable place? Does it feel safe to be there? Do you mindlessly pick up the mail (other energy) and leave it any old place? Do you take your home for granted?

Just like owning the place you live, there are benefits AND the responsibility of caring for it. How often do you tend to your own needs and what your body wants? Are you getting enough rest? Taking time to de-stress? Do you have so much of your attention outside of you that you forget to come home?

I’ve always foumd it interesting when someone says to me that they don’t have time for themselves. Here’s a newsflash…YOU need to MAKE time for you to come home! No one else can do this for you. If you’re saying ‘I’ll be home for Christmas’ why not come home NOW?

Your spiritual essence is very smart! If ‘home’ needs redecorating, there are guests that are still there from the party last week, or dare I say unwanted guests that came to the party and never left, your spirit is going to hang around until you clear out a space for it to come home to!

One way to describe ‘hanging around’ is that spaced out feeling, as if you are watching yourself in a dream. When you bring yourself back home you find clarity, you are alert, have more energy and awareness increases.

All you have to do is take a few moments each day to clean out, update and take notice of what is really YOU in there! Cleaning is good for the soul and you have the ABILITY & RIGHT to clear out anything you want to! Your body is YOURS so OWN it! Your body..Your space…Your HOME.~Shine Your Light Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010 All rights reserved 

VISIT ME ON THE WEB:

Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping people heal their spirit so they can create and live the life they choose. For more information, to schedule a reading or coaching visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.