Patterns

Have you noticed any recurring patterns in your life?  Patterns are those experiences in life that play out much like an old record album going round & round, over & over again. In other words you find yourself in the same situations responding in a similar way time and time again.

Patterns are different for each person but I’m guessing there are at least one or two that you’ve noticed in your life. It could be in the realm of relationships and love, giving up on something right before complete success, bringing in money only to get hit with an unexpected expense almost immediately,  or it could be that you find extreme moments of happiness only to get slammed moments later.

If you take a moment to think about it, you might find that in each instance you were literally waiting to be invalidated or for something to go wrong. While waiting for some disaster to strike, you didn’t truly get to enjoy what came in for you!

If you have convinced yourself that you choose the wrong relationships, have negative people or drama in your life and/or you will never have what you want…guess what? There’s a good chance your prophecy will come to pass! This is part of a pattern!

Patterns do happen and once you become aware of a particular pattern you can clear it. When I look at the energy clairvoyantly there are often symbols, agreements or energy cords involved. The challenge in clearing patterns is being able to find the underlying ‘picture’, if you will, vs getting caught up in the drama of WHY it’s there and WHY it keeps happening.

Patterns are almost always connected to lessons you want to learn or old energies you want to clear. If you continue to ask WHY or you are waiting for the proverbial shoe to drop, the universe is going to grant your wish  by bringing the lesson to your attention once again so you can find your answer! It is when you look deeper to find the underlying energy and lesson you are learning  that things will begin to change in a major way for you.

Clearing patterns in your life is a matter of getting to the heart of it all. Think of it like peeling an onion. You peel off one layer then there’s another layer than another until finally you get the middle. Life is like that too. 

How about getting to the heart of it first? What if  instead of asking WHY you looked for the ANSWER!? In life many answers are actually found when you ask the right question. Ask the right question to dissolve and dismantle patterns from the past that don’t serve you.

Begin with a new question and thought process to forever change your life! Starting today ask for answers and create a brand new, brighter tomorrow! ~Shine Your Light Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010 All rights reserved 

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Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, intuitive coach and teacher helping people worldwide to awaken to their truth and heal the human spirit. For more information, to schedule a reading/coaching session and information on upcoming workshops & events please visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.

~Echo your Heart IN Love~

” What you experience will be a reflection of your own vibration, an “echo” if you will “~Hemal Radia

An echo is the sound you hear when you make a noise and the sound wave reflects off a distant object. Sound is a waveform made from vibrating matter. Although you may not be able to hear it, you heart has a very unique vibration that is yours and only yours!

When you vibrate from a place of love, the energy goes out much like a radio tower that sends out waves. When your heart song is tuned to you, there are those who will hear it and be attracted to this vibration.

Have you noticed that when you first fall in love everything around you is not only brighter but wonderful things start to happen? Your senses are sharper, you feel alive and you see the world in a different light.

You seem to attract gentle interactions in all areas of your life and your growth process is easier and smoother. Nothing bothers you and your heart skips a beat when you get that special phone call, text, email or IM.

Your unique heart song has resonated with another, they knocked on the door, so to speak, you opened the door and BAM! Your entire world transforms right before your very eyes!

There is nothing more exciting than new or newly rekindled love! Your heart literally sings and you are so filled up with the vibration that there is no choice but to see it, feel it, go with the flow and experience every second in time!

What is it about falling in love that causes us to become so acutely aware of our senses? Although we like to attribute the feeling and vibration to having met that special person, it is really about opening your heart and allowing that vibration to flow!

Often I see (and have experienced this myself) people looking outside themselves for the perfect love. The perfect relationship. I’ve also heard ‘I met the most wonderful man/woman and I wasn’t even looking!’

Energetically this happens because you stop looking outside yourself, choose to be happy and you are in affinity with who you are, what you are doing and all the love that’s in your heart. Finding or rekindling the LOVE you desire has everything to do with you opening the door to your heart and giving it to YOU.

No one can love you and there is no perfect relationship until you love yourself enough to have a wonderful relationship with YOU! The more you fill up with and give YOURSELF all the love you have to give another the more that vibration resonates out into the universe and just like an echo, will come back to you! 

“The echoes of your heart sing to the ends of the Universe. No stone is unmoved, no heart is untouched to the song you are singing…..” ~ Hemal Radia.

Let your heart sing its precious melody. Receive your echos in warm embrace. Do this for yourself for there is no better feeling than being IN love! ~Shine Your Light Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010

VISIT ME ON THE WEB:

Debra is a clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer, coach and teacher helping people heal their spirit so they can create and live the life they choose. For more information, to schedule a reading or coaching visit her website or send an email to Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com.