~Ask A Psychic Healer: Inquiring Minds Want to Know~

This post is to answer your questions about energy, healing and spirit. The questions come from real people and the answers given are not the ONLY answers but merely a brief snapshot of what could be a full blog post in and of themselves. In the future I’ll post more of these so feel free to ask questions on my Spiritlightinsight Clairvoyant Readings by Debra Facebook Page.

Steve asks: “What percent of a person do you think is special and unique from everyone else?  My theory is that although everyone is unique, we all have more in common than difference.  And that for some it means finding that unique energy, and for others, it means losing the unique energy to fit in with society.  What is your experience when working with others?”

Answer: In reading your question I see two very unique thoughts coming through. If I were to assign a percentage it would be 100%. Each and every one of us has a unique energy. No ones energy is exactly the same as another. No two people create or vibrate in the same way and each of us have different thought processes in addition to our ‘being-ness’. Yes, we have a lot in common however we are individuals. One never loses their unique energy but one might be living from someone else’s truth. Working with clients what I see most often is they have accepted programming, invalidation and/or limits as their own truth. In a reading session I guide them back to their own truth and unique energy. A simple ‘hello’ to someone’s spirit acknowledges them as being more than their circumstances and allows them to heal, take back their power and feel ‘visible’ in a world where often times one feels invisible and insignificant.

Cindy asks: “How does one heal with the loss of  someone?”

Answer: This is one of the most difficult things to do and I truly think everyone heals in their own way and their own time. When I work with clients healing from loss of a loved one the first thing I do is help them release the energy grief of others so they can heal their own grief. When someone passes they collect up their energy to take their step out of the body. This is why one feels ’empty’. Focus on the beautiful memories and give yourself time. The physical body needs time to heal and the grieving process and release is a part of it. Embrace the process and know the person (or pet) will forever be in your heart and that their spirit is alive and well on the other side. There many resources to help you heal. Psychic Medium Mark Anthony’s book “Never Letting Go”  is about healing with help from the other side. He also has a wonderful FB group called “Never Letting Go”.

Psychic Medium Allie Cheslick asks:  “Why are there folks in the Metaphysical community who preach non judgment but then do exactly the opposite?”

Answer: It’s called spiritual competition and sadly it’s prevalent in the metaphysical community. Judgement is an energy and one of the reasons it takes over is because the “judges” have lost their space to fame, or their clients and/or students. Unfortunately this occasionally translates to them judging clients as well. It’s invalidating when one is not acknowledged as a human being with feelings who is hurting and desperately seeking answers and/or in need of a healing.  As a part of the metaphysical community my goal is to own my space and not get caught up in what I call the psychic drama of who’s the best and most accurate. It’s not for us to judge or become the authority for someone else. There are many healing modalities, types of readings, styles etc. One way is not necessarily better than another one. For me it’s about healing the spirit and guiding a client to find their own truth because ultimately every person has the answers they seek within them. Sometimes people just need a bit of help healing to get ‘unstuck’ so they can see the bigger picture and find their own truth.

My answers may not be your answers nor do I answer for the entire metaphysical community but that’s my 2 cents worth (hopefully) from neutral! 🙂 ~Shine Your Light Debbie

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Unleash Your Creativity!

pallette and knifeWithin each of us there is an inner artist who has access to an abundance of creativity just waiting to be unleashed! Your inner artist has the ability to create beautiful thoughts, stunning vibrations and is the catalyst for creating a rich, abundant life!

“Artist is a descriptive term applied to a person who engages in an activity deemed to be an art. An artist also may be defined unofficially as “a person who expresses him- or herself through a medium”~ via Wikipedia

Your medium is your life and you express yourself through your words, thoughts, deeds and vibrations. Creating your life IS an art form and because you are a unique individual, no one else does it exactly the same way you do. When was the last time you consciously created something with reckless abandon? Is your creativity limited by fear, invalidation or someone else’s opinion whether it be real or perceived? Do you feel blocked from creating in certain areas of your life?

Unleashing your creativity means clearing the limits placed on you by well-meaning family, friends or society at large. It means allowing your inner artist to take a risk and burst forth with joy and enthusiasm. It also means getting in touch with who you are and what you are passionate about. Your passion fuels your creativity. If you don’t like what you are doing or the situation you are in take a step back and ask yourself are you passionate about it.

Your creativity goes well beyond painting a painting, writing a paper or building a building. Creativity is a vibration and infinitely abundant within you. There is nothing you cannot create when your creativity is flowing. Your creativity is a part of your energy. When your energy is flowing freely it feels good, things are usually going well and you make things happen like magic!

If your creativity feels blocked or you just can’t seem to bring that thought of something you’d like to create to the forefront. This is because there is another energy (usually not yours), a thought , opinion or programming that what you want  or do isn’t important. If you don’t take time to allow your creativity to flow you diminish your own importance and certainty. In essence you dull your light.

When your creativity is unleashed your light is shining brightly, you are happy, enthusiastic and you really are stunning to look at and be around. There is a spring in your step, a sparkle in your eye and the brightness is attractive and is seen by others. To re-start and unleash your creativity begin by coming back to you. For a few precious moments, make yourself the most important person in your world. Remember who you are and connect with your unique vibration of energy.

Realize that there is more to you than meets the eye. There is more to you than your current situation. Connect with your value and all you have to give to the world. Your creativity is an inspiration which not only feels good to you but  inspires and leads others to their own unique creativity. This is the greatest way of paying it forward. Imagine a world filled with people shining their light and inspiring others to shine theirs. Imagine a world full of inspiration and flowing creativity. Imagine it all starts with you…because it does! 

Unleash your creativity! Allow that vibration to reverberate through your life. Use passion and love to fuel your creativity. Find inspiration and value in all that you do and let it flow through you. Allow your inner artist to come out and play!!  Come out come out where ever you are! 😉 ~Shine Your LightDebbie

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