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All healing is self-healing and no matter how hard you try there are just some journeys that you are not meant to walk with someone else. You can understand, empathize, listen and be a good friend but you can’t heal everyone nor can you do it for them.

Taking on someone else’s pain and getting angry because they can’t or don’t want to heal in the same way as you will only make you frustrated not to mention, your attention and energy will be in their space. It will not only make them uncomfortable but they will resist even the best of intentions.

In this situation, it is best to find your neutrality and heal yourself first by seeking to understand what it is within YOU that wants to control someone else’s healing process. The difficulties and challenges that one person faces are very different from those of another and who is to say what internal process another person is going through.

Everyone heals in their own time…

To you it may not look like someone is healing if they are taking longer to do it than you would. Each of us makes our way as it is meant to be and the process takes as long as it takes. There is no time frame. It may take a day for one person, a week for another or a lifetime for someone else. Taking a step back to honor and respect the healing journey of another is the most loving thing you can do.

It’s easy to see the answer for someone else if you have not walked in their shoes. There may be a very good reason they are taking their time. Furthermore if you had a similar experience the answer YOU found to heal is not necessarily THEIR answer. If you have judgement about how to do it or how long it should take, it invalidates the person AND the healing that is already in process! Always take time to really see how much progress has been made.

Each of us must take responsibility for our own energy and healing process. Each of us has the ability to find our own answers. Heal yourself and honor the journey of others. Support and love those who are healing without judgement. Be there to offer a kind word, a warm hug, an ear to listen. Heal yourself to show someone else it is possible to heal. That my friends is how you CAN do it for someone else!~Shine Your Light Debbie

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Are you ready to de-clutter and reorganize? Are there piles of papers or things scattered about? Do you find certain ‘friends’ cluttering your life with drama? Do you have space for quiet time, meditation and creating? Whether it is your physical space or your energetic space when you decide to de-clutter and reorganize you will have a renewed sense of peace and calm AND you will have more space to create in.

De-cluttering is different each time you do it. This week you might want to clean out and reorganize your closets, next week it could be clearing out old friends or letting go of energies that are not in your best interest perhaps causing chaos or drama that isn’t yours. No matter what it is, de-cluttering and reorganizing anything that doesn’t serve you in its present form is beneficial to your health and happiness.

This is truly a personal “do it yourself” project! After all, no one can really help you decide what is important to keep, what you’d like to get rid of or how you want to reorganize it. Most likely you can look around your physical space to clue you in to your energetic space. If things are piled up, unorganized, not prioritized and waiting for your attention in the physical, take a look to see what is waiting for your attention etc. on an energy level. Your physical space is a direct reflection of your energetic space!

“Out of chaos comes order” ~Friedrich Nietzsche

How many times have you wanted to tackle the enormous task of cleaning out and organizing the closets, clearing off your desk, re-organizing, re-prioritizing or getting rid of those things you no longer use but never get to it? Have you ever started but couldn’t finish? There’s actually a very good reason these tasks are overwhelming. All clutter is energy and holds energy! In terms of your energetic space & relationships, clutter is the ‘pictures’ associated with those particular people or energies.

Physical items hold an abundance of energy. As you touch each item you are affected by the energies and memories held in those objects. You are literally getting bombarded with energy! Your psychic ability to feel energy in objects called psychometry and whether you realize it consciously or not you use this ability every time you touch something.

Forgive yourself if the task at hand feels overwhelming or you keep putting it off! It may indeed be simply because of all the energy you experience. Once you forgive yourself, take one step at a time. Clear out a small corner and see how much space you have! Delicately and with grace forgive those people or relationships you are ready to de-clutter from your life and clear them out.

Organize yourself around that which that nurtures your spirit and supports you. Get rid of whatever you’ve thrown in the closet just because you weren’t using it and had no where else to put it! Open your eyes to what you can create by clearing out a space for it! De-clutter your life and care for YOU! ~Shine Your Light Debbie

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Debra is a gifted clairvoyant reader, spiritual healer and intuitive coach providing insight and guidance to clients around the world. Based in Chicago, Debra also leads meditation workshops that help people awaken to their own truth and spiritual gifts. To schedule a session or for more information on readings and workshops please visit her website or send an email request to Debra@SpiritLightInsight.com