AWARENESS – Page 71

Although I’ve been working on another post, as we head into this Valentine’s weekend it seems most appropriate to talk about matters of the heart 🙂 LOVE, ROMANCE AND LOVE AFFAIRS! Now, how fun is that?! What if I told you that you can have the most amazing, passionate, romantic love affair you’ve ever experienced? Well, you CAN and it all begins with YOU!

Love is an energy vibration that already exists within you. It is not something outside of you that you have to go looking for. I recently came across a quote: “Seeking love outside yourself stops you from realizing it within.” (~Author Unknown) Personally I think that quote gets right to the heart of the matter! 😉

Think of it in these terms: What does it feel like when you are attracted to someone when you first meet? There are sparks! You light up! There are butterflies in your stomach! Your heart skips a beat! What is causes that? I can tell you some certainty that what you are feeling is YOUR energy coming alive! When you fall IN LOVE you are in YOUR love!

When it rains it pours! Feast or famine! Have you ever noticed that when you are in love and having an amazing love affair how much attention you get? I have many single friends who tell me they either don’t have any dates or the dates are coming fast and furious! Have you or do you know someone who met a special someone “when least expected?” It is more than likely that you stopped looking and decided to just go with the flow. In other words, you turned your attention within and began living life from what makes you happy. Other people NOTICE that energy! !

When you generate the your own unique energy of love, and have YOUR energy in YOUR space there is nothing more attractive. So I ask you now to look inside yourself and take notice of how much you love yourself. Humor me here and use your psychic ability…just for fun! If you don’t want to call it being psychic then use your imagination! 🙂

What do you see? How do you feel about yourself and your body? Have you “lost that lovin’ feeling”? Have you ever said something to the effect of ‘I gave it everything I had’. Newsflash! If you’re not feeling romance, love and passion…not to mention the grandest energy of all…what it feels like when you are having a love affair, you may have given it away!

If you feel empty inside…you ARE! You gave away your energy! Here’s the good news! You can call back your energy, generate it from within and have a love affair with yourself! This is not about ego. It’s about loving yourself, romancing yourself and feeling good about ALL you are and WHO you are. It’s about you having the energy to be able to GIVE to someone! It’s about being in and generating YOUR love vibration and having affinity for yourself! How can someone love you the way you want to be loved if you don’t love yourself that way? How can someone treat you the way you wish to be treated if you don’t do that for yourself? How can someone respect you if you don’t respect yourself?

Whether you are seeking love or have found it but don’t feel that romantic spark check in with yourself to see how you are feeling. If you are not feeling like you are having the grandest love affair of your life…CALL BACK YOUR ENERGY! Fill up with all that is YOU! Write yourself a love letter! Send yourself a valentine! Begin to generate from within all that love you have to give and see what happens! Have a grand love affair with yourself and see who else wants to join in! HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY! Shine your love light~Debbie

©Debra Taitel 2010

For nearly 20 years Debra has been doing clairvoyant readings and teaching classes on meditation & spiritual healing. For more information on clairvoyant readings please visit her website at Spiritlightinsight.com You can contact her directly at Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com

As I take my own personal growth steps, clear my energy and find my own truth, it seems that one picture or another reappears so I can yet again find my truth. This time from where I am in present time with a deeper level of understanding. Thus is the way it is with energy. When you take a “step up” in your vibration you have the opportunity to work on something from an even more unique perspective…you might even say at a deeper level with new awareness of how it has been effecting you. I have chosen to share a bit of my personal growth with you as you may find some of your own answers from just reading it. The image I chose for this blog is one of my favorites and may strike a chord with you as well! It is a reminder to be sure! 🙂

In meditation last week I was humming along clearing energy when I got a bit stuck on some pictures of how other people see me and feel about me. I try to live my life as a caring, loving, happy little spirit. I love to teach and inspire so every now and again I try to see myself as others see me. In fact I have spent many an hour wondering how people perceive me. I want to live from a loving heart can others see that? Do they see me as capable? Successful? Am I seen as happy? Sweet? With a caring, giving heart? Do they GET me? I have even asked the question why can’t someone see how much love I have to give? I was looking clairvoyantly from the OUTSIDE…IN… trying to SEE what others SEE. As I began my own healing, calling energy back from the questions and “pictures” associated with them, it hit me right between the eyes….LITERALLY since I was looking from a clairvoyant space! lol I was trying to see ME from someone else’s perspective…from the outside IN not looking at myself from the INSIDE out!

Now I should probably take a moment to explain that when I do energy work for myself or others I like to “follow the bouncing picture”. 🙂 That means when I see a picture or energy, I see it, acknowledge it, call my energy out of it, let it go then allow the next picture or energy to appear. I then clear that and so on. In this case, it lead me to look at the pictures about; How do I SEE myself? and How do I FEEL about myself? WOWZA!!!! HELLO!!!! How do I perceive myself?! I KNOW that sounds simple and yes I have found and cleared these pictures before but for whatever reason, it was time to examine them AGAIN for the very first time! With neutrality and a deeper level of awareness I found my answers. How others SEE ME, what they FEEL ABOUT ME, AND how much they UNDERSTAND ME is directly related to HOW I SEE MYSELF, WHAT I FEEL ABOUT MYSELF AND HOW MUCH I UNDERSTAND MYSELF!!!!

I was so excited about this new, yet once again, discovery that I told my dear friend Jessica, who by the way has a wonderful site Askandallowonline.com. She immediately began laughing hysterically at me! Her only words were “now YOU know THAT!” Well she was right, I DO KNOW that but when I began looking at myself I found some pretty gnarly lies I had bought into and took on as my TRUTH. Once I blew out these pictures I once again experienced CERTAINTY! I was able to VALIDATE myself and found JOY and LIGHTNESS at a vibration I hadn’t experienced before! Not only that, I had so much of my energy back that I’ve been creating and manifesting at light speed! This is what happens when you clear out a lie, blow a picture and get your energy back!!!

So as with all my blogs, I invite you to take a moment to look at yourself. 🙂 Do you ever wonder what people think of you? or How people see you? Ever asked the question “Why doesn’t anybody GET me? How come they can’t see how capable or loving I am?” Have you ever asked…(and dare I even ask if you’ve ever asked this question)… “what’s WRONG with me?” Is there something in your life that you have spent YEARS or even most of your life trying to get someone(s) validation for? How do YOU see YOURSELF? How do YOU feel about YOURSELF?

Well my dear lovely ones, look in the mirror and see what looks back! The very thing you seek is right in front of you! All of your answers lie within that beautiful YOU! The answers to the questions you may have spent a lifetime asking can be answered with these simple questions…How do you see yourself? How do you feel about yourself? Do you understand YOU? It is said, “what you think about, you bring about.” So if you think of yourself a certain way, that most certainly will be how others see you. Change your thoughts and you will change your world!!! Just like the kitten looking into the mirror, see yourself as you wish to be seen! 🙂

Thank you for taking a moment to read this blog! I hope you have found some of your own truth by reading about my experience 🙂 For more information on clairvoyant readings please visit my website Spiritlightinsight.com
Also, feel free to “friend” me on Facebook! Shine your light~Debbie