Mirror mirror on the wall….

kittenAs I take my own personal growth steps, clear my energy and find my own truth, it seems that one picture or another reappears so I can yet again find my truth. This time from where I am in present time with a deeper level of understanding. Thus is the way it is with energy. When you take a “step up” in your vibration you have the opportunity to work on something from an even more unique perspective…you might even say at a deeper level with new awareness of how it has been effecting you. I have chosen to share a bit of my personal growth with you as you may find some of your own answers from just reading it. The image I chose for this blog is one of my favorites and may strike a chord with you as well! It is a reminder to be sure! 🙂

In meditation last week I was humming along clearing energy when I got a bit stuck on some pictures of how other people see me and feel about me. I try to live my life as a caring, loving, happy little spirit. I love to teach and inspire so every now and again I try to see myself as others see me. In fact I have spent many an hour wondering how people perceive me. I want to live from a loving heart can others see that? Do they see me as capable? Successful? Am I seen as happy? Sweet? With a caring, giving heart?  Do they GET me? I have even asked the question why can’t someone see how much love I have to give? I was looking clairvoyantly from the OUTSIDE…IN… trying to SEE what others SEE. As I began my own healing, calling  energy back from the questions and  “pictures” associated with them, it hit me right between the eyes….LITERALLY since I was looking from a clairvoyant space! lol I was trying to see ME from someone else’s perspective…from the outside IN not looking at myself from the INSIDE out!

Now I should probably take a moment to explain that when I do energy work for myself or others I like to “follow the bouncing picture”. 🙂 That means when I see a picture or energy, I see it, acknowledge it, call my energy out of it, let it go then allow the next picture or energy to appear. I then clear that and so on. In this case, it lead me to look at the pictures about; How do I SEE myself? and How do I FEEL about myself?  WOWZA!!!! HELLO!!!! How do I perceive myself?! I KNOW that sounds simple and yes I have found and cleared these pictures before but for whatever reason, it was time to examine them AGAIN for the very first time! With neutrality and a deeper level of awareness I found my answers. How others SEE ME, what they FEEL ABOUT ME, AND how much they UNDERSTAND ME is directly related to HOW I SEE MYSELF, WHAT I FEEL ABOUT MYSELF AND HOW MUCH I UNDERSTAND MYSELF!!!!

I was so excited about this new, yet once again, discovery that I told my dear friend Jessica, who by the way has a wonderful site Askandallowonline.com. She immediately began laughing hysterically at me! Her only words were “now YOU know THAT!” Well she was right, I DO KNOW that but when I began looking at myself I found some pretty gnarly lies I had bought into and took on as my TRUTH. Once I blew out these pictures I once again experienced CERTAINTY! I was able to VALIDATE myself and found  JOY and LIGHTNESS at a vibration I hadn’t experienced before! Not only that, I had so much of my energy back that I’ve been creating and manifesting at light speed! This is what happens when you clear out a lie, blow a picture and get your energy back!!!

 So as with all my blogs, I invite you to take a moment to look at yourself. 🙂 Do you ever wonder what people think of you? or How people see you? Ever asked the question “Why doesn’t anybody GET me? How come they can’t see how capable or loving I am?” Have you ever asked…(and dare I even ask if you’ve ever asked this question)… “what’s WRONG with me?” Is there something in your life that you have spent YEARS or even most of your life trying to get someone(s) validation for? How do YOU see YOURSELF? How do YOU feel about YOURSELF?

Well my dear lovely ones, look in the mirror and see what looks back! The very thing you seek is right in front of you! All of your answers lie within that beautiful YOU! The answers to the questions you may have spent a lifetime asking can be answered with these simple questions…How do you see yourself? How do you feel about yourself? Do you understand YOU? It is said, “what you think about, you bring about.” So if you think of yourself a certain way, that most certainly will be how others see you. Change your thoughts and you will change your world!!! Just like the kitten looking into the mirror, see yourself as you wish to be seen! 🙂 

Thank you for taking a moment to read this blog! I hope you have found some of your own truth by reading about my experience 🙂 For more information on clairvoyant readings please visit my website Spiritlightinsight.com
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Playing in YOUR SANDBOX: )

32286-Clipart-Illustration-Of-A-Cat-Near-A-Boy-And-Girl-Playing-In-A-Sandbox-In-A-ParkRemember when you were little and you got to play in the sand? Whether it was the beach or your sandbox all you needed was a small shovel, bucket, maybe some water and your imagination! Your socks and shoes were thrown off so your little toes could just squish into that fun sand. You could create whatever you wanted and there was a feeling of pure joy with the experience. It didn’t matter who was watching, or if your castle had a moat. It was really FUN if you could get someone to bury in it!  You would create something then destroy it because you had the certainty that the next thing you created would be even better! There was magic in that sandbox! You were in a world of your own imagination building your dream! It could be simple or intricate but nonetheless it was YOURS….AND there were NO LIMITS!

For me there were giggles, wiggling toes and sunshine! The sandbox was a HAPPY place where I could create something, destroy it, then create something new. It didn’t have to be perfect, I was not limited to one thing our another. In my sandbox everything was FUN and POSSIBLE! To this day I love going to the beach. I find it very healing to walk in the sand barefoot and just listen to the water gently lapping against the shore. There is an awareness about me. It’s about feeling the sensations, being in the body and having my space. It still delights me to create in the sand!  My mind goes a mile a minute with the infinite possibilities!

What would you say if I told you that LIFE, specifically YOUR LIFE, was really like that sandbox? A place to have FUN, grow, create and re-create at will and there were no LIMITS to what you could do and accomplish! What if every grain of sand represented a moment in time and when all put together makes you who you are…..A creative, spiritual being having a human experience.  Each grain of sand IS a moment and you can use those grains to grow, change and create yet another masterpiece. Gets you to thinking doesn’t it? 🙂

It’s amazing to me how many people I read that have been invalidated and had limits placed on wanting to play in their sandbox. How’s YOUR sandbox these days? Is it a fun place? Are you limited in the what, where or how you create? Is there something you’d like to do but there’s a little voice in your head that says “hahaha you can’t do THAT”! Is there something in the back of your mind you’ve really wanted to do but keep it in the back of your mind? If so, you may have had a limit placed on you! Perhaps at 3 when you said you wanted to be an astronaut, policeman, fireman etc. you were patting on the head and told “that’s nice” sweetheart. Mom & Dad thought it was cute and then went on to imagine what THEY wanted for you. A more realistic life.  My personal favorite is about having it ALL! Of course you can’t have it ALL! Maybe you can have a little piece every now and then but for sure you can’t have it all at the same time! Well…..WHY NOT?

One of the challenges I have in writing a blog is how many different directions I can go with it. I open a plethora of pictures and try to stay focused! 🙂 For the purpose of THIS blog I want to address the limits that are either placed on us or that we place on ourselves. In many ways, the current economy has forced some of us to re-evaluate what it is that we are doing, expand our creativity and even takes steps to follow that “dream” in the back of our minds. What I see in present time are people searching for HOW  to blow out the limits and go in a different direction! Although perhaps forced to do it by circumstance it seems to me that just about EVERYONE is now taking some sort of step to find their answers, clear the limits and begin anew to create the BEST sandcastle ever! What great news!

So,  each moment is a grain of sand. It’s what you do with each moment that builds your creation! Every experience, good or bad, allows you to grow & learn. Is your focus and intent centered on your imagination and what lies within or is it on outside circumstances (limits) that you can’t do anything about? Are you building your sandcastle? Are you playing and having FUN in your sandbox? Why not take a moment right now to imagine what it would be like to ~PLAY IN YOUR SANDBOX OF LIFE~ How would it feel to build the most glorious castle ever?!

Now is the time to let go of the limits! Begin to dream of your glorious sand castles! What would your life look like? Feel like? See the details, smile inside as you imagine those grains of sand coming together. No dream is too big! Feel the sand under your feet in your sandbox! Wiggle your toes and bask in the sunshine of your dream! Sprinkle your sand castle with a bit of gold fairy dust, show it to the universe and then allow it to float off so that it can come back to you with ease! There’s no effort in this! Each moment in time is a grain of sand that makes you who you are! Singularly separate, yet all “packed” together is YOUR beautiful creation!

Light, Love & Abundance to all~Debbie

For more information or a clairvoyant reading on clearing limits, please visit my website at www.Spiritlightinsight.com If you’d like to send me an email, I can be contacted at Debra@Spiritlightinsight.com